Decorating with White: A Clean Slate

by Lindsey on September 6, 2010

The following post is from Lindsey Roberts, a freelance writer covering design & décor:

decorating with white

source: whatyayalikes

The maxim goes that we shouldn’t wear white after Labor Day. But the one place I think we might want to wear white—no matter the season—is in our homes.

Buy White, Accent in Color
White is the foundational color that allows you to express your own style the best. If you buy white basics, such as towels, sheets, dishes, and shower curtains, you give yourself the flexibility to accent in whatever color-of-the-moment you so choose—and the accents will pop more than they would if they were the dominating colors.

When I registered for my wedding a year ago, my favorite colors were—and still are—orange and cobalt blue. But I registered for towels, sheets, and dishes in white, because I know that in five or ten years, my favorite colors could be red and camel. I bought dish towels, accent vases, and throw pillows in blue and orange instead.

This strategy even works on your walls: Paint your moulding white, and any color you paint on the walls will look crisper and classier.

white & taupe

source: Apartment Therapy

White Basics, Seasonal Accents
White also allows you to change up your accent pieces seasonally. Friends of ours have decorated mostly in white and taupe, and then change out accent pieces such as decorative plates and tablecloths depending on the season. Even though they don’t change much, brown accents still mark the beginning of fall, blue the beginning of summer.

Matchy-Matchy
White is also the simplest color for matching. If everyone in the house uses white, you don’t have to  wash your daughter’s pink towels and son’s blue towels separately and then walk them to different rooms. (A pile of white towels and sheets also makes for one smart-looking linen closet!)

stack of white towels

source: Colin Davis

White Bright
Are your towels dingy from use or stained by mascara? Wash them with a little bit of bleach and you’ll be back to bright whites. (Make sure to check labels for cleaning instructions before you buy, and before you wash with bleach.) Recently, Martha Stewart shared her top kitchen tips on the Today Show, and I learned that she has a drawer full of white dishcloths. She uses them to wipe up spills, and they’re easy to clean.

Whether you’re starting out in your first apartment, registering for a wedding, or just redecorating, here are whites that I own and can personally recommend:

  • Macy’s Hotel Collection bath towels, Turkish Collection, $12–$64
    These always look fluffy and clean in our small bathroom, and they have stayed absorbent. Investing in little luxuries such as these makes for great starts to our days. In the bathroom, we accent with colorful hand towels.
  • Garnet Hill’s Signature Hemstiched Percale sheets, $20–$65
    Crawling into these smooth, crisp sheets is always a relaxing experience—even if they have already been slept on for two weeks. They haven’t started pilling like another pair of sheets that we’ve had for the same amount of time. They also look classy next to our quilts and duvet comforters, which we change seasonally.
  • Jasper Conran at Wedgwood dinnerware, $15–$350
    Although we were tempted by trendy dinnerware, we now know that buying white everyday dinnerware was one of the smartest decisions we made. White china can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion, and because it’s china, it’s the sturdiest form of dinnerware that we can use every day. That’s good for a clumsy couple like ourselves—only one plate has broken so far, and we know that if the plates had been earthenware, the count would be a lot higher.

A clean palette is a clean slate, and you can let the accent colors change with the seasons and your changes in taste. White is the palette on which you can paint your personality.

Do you use white in your home, or are you afraid to try because of the dirt factor?

Lindsey M. Roberts has covered design, décor, and homes from Washington state to Washington, D.C., writing for publications such as Seattle Homes & Lifestyles, Apartment Therapy, The Washington Post, and Preservation magazine and currently edits publications for Hanley Wood, including Architect magazine.
  • Katlyn

    i LOVE my all white dishes! I have to say…i’m a little obsessed with white serving pieces and dishes in general. They are just so crisp and clean and ANYTHING you serve on them makes you look like a professional chef. Thanks for the article. It’s good to know I am not alone.

  • Katlyn

    i LOVE my all white dishes! I have to say…i’m a little obsessed with white serving pieces and dishes in general. They are just so crisp and clean and ANYTHING you serve on them makes you look like a professional chef. Thanks for the article. It’s good to know I am not alone.

  • Lindsey

    It was very hard for us not to get trendy plates, but we’re so glad we didn’t! You are most certainly not alone. And you’re right, totally crisp and clean.

  • Lindsey

    It was very hard for us not to get trendy plates, but we’re so glad we didn’t! You are most certainly not alone. And you’re right, totally crisp and clean.

  • http://www.aliedwards.com Ali

    All white dishes + towels (especially kitchen towels) are one of my favorite simplifications – and I love the look :) .

  • http://www.aliedwards.com Ali

    All white dishes + towels (especially kitchen towels) are one of my favorite simplifications – and I love the look :) .

  • Christy

    Nice article Lindsey! I love the crisp clean look of white towels. Frustrated however with the white sheets. The pillow cases are so hard to keep white and I’ve tried bleaching them. Any hints?

  • Christy

    Nice article Lindsey! I love the crisp clean look of white towels. Frustrated however with the white sheets. The pillow cases are so hard to keep white and I’ve tried bleaching them. Any hints?

  • Lindsey

    Good question. I did some searching and found that Heloise answered this question in a Washington Post chat about a year ago:

    Washington, D.C.: What is the best way to keep white sheets white?
    Heloise: Well, this used to be an easy answer. Bleach! But today, many sheets and towels are manufactured with an optical brightener in them. The care label states no chlorine bleach! So, wash them only with other whites, rinse two times and pray!
    http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/discussion/2009/07/30/DI2009073001919.html

    Not a very encouraging answer, right? If you just can’t get pillow cases white again, I’d suggest buying new inexpensive ones, or enjoying the eclectic look that’s hot right now and mixing and matching white sheets with colored pillowcases.

    Does anyone else have other advice for Christy?

    • Gaby

      I’ve had good luck with hydrogen peroxide on whites. I’ve also been told that a combination of peroxide with baking soda does a good job, but I haven’t yet tried that.

      • Lindsey

        I will try this next on my husband’s white t-shirts. Thanks, Gaby!

        • Tabatha

          Have you tried white vinegar in your rinse cycle or in the slot the bleach goes into? I’ve done that with whites that can’t be bleached and never had a problem.

  • Lindsey

    Good question. I did some searching and found that Heloise answered this question in a Washington Post chat about a year ago:

    Washington, D.C.: What is the best way to keep white sheets white?
    Heloise: Well, this used to be an easy answer. Bleach! But today, many sheets and towels are manufactured with an optical brightener in them. The care label states no chlorine bleach! So, wash them only with other whites, rinse two times and pray!
    http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/discussion/2009/07/30/DI2009073001919.html

    Not a very encouraging answer, right? If you just can’t get pillow cases white again, I’d suggest buying new inexpensive ones, or enjoying the eclectic look that’s hot right now and mixing and matching white sheets with colored pillowcases.

    Does anyone else have other advice for Christy?

    • Gaby

      I’ve had good luck with hydrogen peroxide on whites. I’ve also been told that a combination of peroxide with baking soda does a good job, but I haven’t yet tried that.

      • Lindsey

        I will try this next on my husband’s white t-shirts. Thanks, Gaby!

        • Tabatha

          Have you tried white vinegar in your rinse cycle or in the slot the bleach goes into? I’ve done that with whites that can’t be bleached and never had a problem.

  • http://www.lifeasmom.com FishMama

    Great suggestions. I love the look of whites.

    I must confess, though, that all my white towels have faded to a very neutral gray. Ahem. Maybe it’s time to replenish.

    What IS the lifetime expectancy of towels, anyway?

    • Lindsey

      I do think that the lifetime expectancy of bath towels depends on the quality of the towel. Macy’s bath towel buying guide says that towels made of Egyptian cotton can last for years with the right care. Teresa Jaremowich Tang, below, says her towels lasted 13 years!

      If it’s time to buy new towels, you can always recycle down and make your current bath towels into utility towels for drying cars or cleaning up big messes.

      • Tabatha

        Don’t forget your local ASPCA will take old towels and blankets! They use them as bedding or for cleaning the cages.

  • http://www.lifeasmom.com FishMama

    Great suggestions. I love the look of whites.

    I must confess, though, that all my white towels have faded to a very neutral gray. Ahem. Maybe it’s time to replenish.

    What IS the lifetime expectancy of towels, anyway?

    • Lindsey

      I do think that the lifetime expectancy of bath towels depends on the quality of the towel. Macy’s bath towel buying guide says that towels made of Egyptian cotton can last for years with the right care. Teresa Jaremowich Tang, below, says her towels lasted 13 years!

      If it’s time to buy new towels, you can always recycle down and make your current bath towels into utility towels for drying cars or cleaning up big messes.

      • Tabatha

        Don’t forget your local ASPCA will take old towels and blankets! They use them as bedding or for cleaning the cages.

  • Teresa Jaremowich Tang

    i bought bulk white bath sheets, bath towels, hand towels and face cloths from costco probably 13 years ago. i bleach them in hot water (i know, greenpeace is on their way) every single wash. to this day, they are still fluffy, soft, white as can be and fresh looking. yes, 13 year old towels. my mom keeps asking me ‘are those the towels you got from costco ages ago?’ yes, mom, they are. the bleach and hot water does the trick as does hanging them out on the clothes line on a sunny hot day – the sun is a natural whitener. you can also try soaking them in oxi-clean and then washing them in oxi-clean – that works too on stubborn stains. vinegar also works. happy experimenting!

    pillow cases that are NOT 100% cotton, are very difficult to keep white because fibres other than cotton generally hold in difficult stains like oils from your hair, oils from your face, sweat, hand lotions, etc – all the things that come off on our sheets when we sleep. if you have pillow cases or sheets that are a combination of fibres and they are becoming yellow, consider changing your sheets to either 100% cotton or linen (generally more expensive). i promise, it makes a difference.

  • Teresa Jaremowich Tang

    i bought bulk white bath sheets, bath towels, hand towels and face cloths from costco probably 13 years ago. i bleach them in hot water (i know, greenpeace is on their way) every single wash. to this day, they are still fluffy, soft, white as can be and fresh looking. yes, 13 year old towels. my mom keeps asking me ‘are those the towels you got from costco ages ago?’ yes, mom, they are. the bleach and hot water does the trick as does hanging them out on the clothes line on a sunny hot day – the sun is a natural whitener. you can also try soaking them in oxi-clean and then washing them in oxi-clean – that works too on stubborn stains. vinegar also works. happy experimenting!

    pillow cases that are NOT 100% cotton, are very difficult to keep white because fibres other than cotton generally hold in difficult stains like oils from your hair, oils from your face, sweat, hand lotions, etc – all the things that come off on our sheets when we sleep. if you have pillow cases or sheets that are a combination of fibres and they are becoming yellow, consider changing your sheets to either 100% cotton or linen (generally more expensive). i promise, it makes a difference.

  • Lindsey

    Teresa, I am inspired! And I think your comment about sheets and pillow cases needing to be 100% cotton is right on.

    • Teresa

      i know most of you are thinking “13 years? yeah right!” but i swear to you – 13 years! my mom still comes over and asks “are those the same towels from costco???” yes, mom, they are. :o )

      ps yes! vinegar works wonders as a natural whitener!

      • Mandi

        I think that’s awesome, Teresa — going to try it on our white towels!

  • Lindsey

    Teresa, I am inspired! And I think your comment about sheets and pillow cases needing to be 100% cotton is right on.

    • Teresa

      i know most of you are thinking “13 years? yeah right!” but i swear to you – 13 years! my mom still comes over and asks “are those the same towels from costco???” yes, mom, they are. :o )

      ps yes! vinegar works wonders as a natural whitener!

      • Mandi

        I think that’s awesome, Teresa — going to try it on our white towels!

  • Christy

    I’m going to try Clorox Stain Fighter and Color Booster. It was the only thing that worked on a wine stain I got on my white pants. I tried other sugestions…soaking in lemon juice, used by old stand-by ‘Goop’, used the spray ‘Wine Away’, tried every suggestion I read about online. Soaking overnight in the Clorox Stain Fighter and then washing got 99% of the stain out!

    • Lindsey

      Chlorox Stain Fighter sounds like something I might need to add to my cleaning kit!

  • Christy

    I’m going to try Clorox Stain Fighter and Color Booster. It was the only thing that worked on a wine stain I got on my white pants. I tried other sugestions…soaking in lemon juice, used by old stand-by ‘Goop’, used the spray ‘Wine Away’, tried every suggestion I read about online. Soaking overnight in the Clorox Stain Fighter and then washing got 99% of the stain out!

    • Lindsey

      Chlorox Stain Fighter sounds like something I might need to add to my cleaning kit!

  • http://www.friendlyfrugalista.com Cara (aka Temberton)

    I love white! I would love to have white doors and trim, white cabinets, etc. Unfortunately, my current house has dark wood cabinets, hardwood floors, wood doors and window trim, off-white paint, and beige tubs, sinks, and toilets. *sigh* However, when DH added some rooms to our large, mostly open finished basement, he did it with white wallboard and trim and bright yellow paint. I love it! So fresh!

  • http://www.friendlyfrugalista.com Cara (aka Temberton)

    I love white! I would love to have white doors and trim, white cabinets, etc. Unfortunately, my current house has dark wood cabinets, hardwood floors, wood doors and window trim, off-white paint, and beige tubs, sinks, and toilets. *sigh* However, when DH added some rooms to our large, mostly open finished basement, he did it with white wallboard and trim and bright yellow paint. I love it! So fresh!

  • Angel

    Love white trim and white dishes! However, I don’t like white towels or sheets. Since moving 4 years ago I have not been using bleach. We have a septic system and aren’t supposed to use it plus I’m just trying to use more natural products. When I use to use bleach though, I never liked how the fabric would start to yellow over time and in the PNW we don’t get enough sun to use it for natural bleaching. :)

    • Tabatha

      Try white vinegar, it won’t hurt your septic system and works very similar to bleach.

  • Angel

    Love white trim and white dishes! However, I don’t like white towels or sheets. Since moving 4 years ago I have not been using bleach. We have a septic system and aren’t supposed to use it plus I’m just trying to use more natural products. When I use to use bleach though, I never liked how the fabric would start to yellow over time and in the PNW we don’t get enough sun to use it for natural bleaching. :)

    • Tabatha

      Try white vinegar, it won’t hurt your septic system and works very similar to bleach.

  • http://momskitchenandstuff.com Brittany

    I was JUST thinking about this the other day…after I broke a coffee mug…again. The design is out of stock or discontinued so the chances of me finding the SAME mug to match is slim. But every store seems to carry white. Hmmm…why didn’t I think of that….. ;)

    • Lindsey

      I’m thinking about white mugs myself, Brittany. Right now I have a mismatched collection that I love, but someday, for guests, I’d like a set of white Heath Ceramics Studio Mugs. If only they weren’t so expensive! http://www.heathceramics.com/go/heath/tableware/store/index.cfm?catID=3

      • http://momskitchenandstuff.com Brittany

        WOW! Yes, that is a bit pricey. They do look nice though :)

  • http://momskitchenandstuff.com Brittany

    I was JUST thinking about this the other day…after I broke a coffee mug…again. The design is out of stock or discontinued so the chances of me finding the SAME mug to match is slim. But every store seems to carry white. Hmmm…why didn’t I think of that….. ;)

    • Lindsey

      I’m thinking about white mugs myself, Brittany. Right now I have a mismatched collection that I love, but someday, for guests, I’d like a set of white Heath Ceramics Studio Mugs. If only they weren’t so expensive! http://www.heathceramics.com/go/heath/tableware/store/index.cfm?catID=3

      • http://momskitchenandstuff.com Brittany

        WOW! Yes, that is a bit pricey. They do look nice though :)

  • http://www.kimbelangermills.com Kim

    I’ve definitely avoided whites in the past since I have a small child, 2 unruley dogs and 3 cats… and don’t use bleach. BUT, after reading this article I went right out and bought a white shower curtain.

    Thanks to those who gave tips on washing bleach-free. I already use vinegar but didn’t know it worked similar to bleach – since I didn’t have whiles to test it on, until now ;-)

  • http://www.kimbelangermills.com Kim

    I’ve definitely avoided whites in the past since I have a small child, 2 unruley dogs and 3 cats… and don’t use bleach. BUT, after reading this article I went right out and bought a white shower curtain.

    Thanks to those who gave tips on washing bleach-free. I already use vinegar but didn’t know it worked similar to bleach – since I didn’t have whiles to test it on, until now ;-)

  • Lindsey

    Thanks to Tabatha and Teresa! I washed my white towels in soap and vinegar and they are definitely whiter. Thanks for the tip!

    • Deb

      Lindsay – GREAT post!
      Talk about anything ‘white’ and I’m there! ;)
      Given that people are always asking me how I get my white’s so white (yes it sounds like a commercial and I can’t help but giggle when they do) thought I’d share what I use. OxyClean is an amazing product used with the appropriate water temperature for the item and then hanging to dry. I use Oxy for most of my clothes (given that 80% of them are white), towels, sheets and vintage linens with amazing results. I’ve got white sweatshirts, dress shirts, t-shirts that I’ve had for 10+ years that are crisp and white as new. Great product.
      I do have the same problem some mentioned re the yellowing pillowcases and have trouble getting them white so was excited to read all the great ideas everyone left. Teresa’s idea of vinegar is something I will try as I see you and a few others seem to have had good results with it. I just have one question – how much vinegar do you use?? Thanks!

      • Lindsey

        How do you use OxyClean? Did you get the powdered form and then use it for each wash?

        • Deb

          I use both OxyClean powdered and spray. I use powdered in the wash machine for all whites. I use the spray on any stains for clothing (and also then launder it w/Oxy powder). The spray works well for applying to any collar, underarm or sleeve cuff areas if you need it. I’ve found Oxy to be colour safe and if I have a stubborn stain (hot sauce is a killer to get out) I just leave the garment on a white towel and keep spraying it through the day, as it keeps working in, until the stain is gone. Note: I believe the directions tell you to laundry right away and not to let the spray dry. Not sure why but I recall reading that so just wanted to mention it. It could be more for colored items that may pertain to as with whites I’ve never had a problem with staining, etc. I have sprayed stained items repeatedly which then ended up left and dried out before laundering w/o any problem.

  • Lindsey

    Thanks to Tabatha and Teresa! I washed my white towels in soap and vinegar and they are definitely whiter. Thanks for the tip!

    • Deb

      Lindsay – GREAT post!
      Talk about anything ‘white’ and I’m there! ;)
      Given that people are always asking me how I get my white’s so white (yes it sounds like a commercial and I can’t help but giggle when they do) thought I’d share what I use. OxyClean is an amazing product used with the appropriate water temperature for the item and then hanging to dry. I use Oxy for most of my clothes (given that 80% of them are white), towels, sheets and vintage linens with amazing results. I’ve got white sweatshirts, dress shirts, t-shirts that I’ve had for 10+ years that are crisp and white as new. Great product.
      I do have the same problem some mentioned re the yellowing pillowcases and have trouble getting them white so was excited to read all the great ideas everyone left. Teresa’s idea of vinegar is something I will try as I see you and a few others seem to have had good results with it. I just have one question – how much vinegar do you use?? Thanks!

      • Lindsey

        How do you use OxyClean? Did you get the powdered form and then use it for each wash?

        • Deb

          I use both OxyClean powdered and spray. I use powdered in the wash machine for all whites. I use the spray on any stains for clothing (and also then launder it w/Oxy powder). The spray works well for applying to any collar, underarm or sleeve cuff areas if you need it. I’ve found Oxy to be colour safe and if I have a stubborn stain (hot sauce is a killer to get out) I just leave the garment on a white towel and keep spraying it through the day, as it keeps working in, until the stain is gone. Note: I believe the directions tell you to laundry right away and not to let the spray dry. Not sure why but I recall reading that so just wanted to mention it. It could be more for colored items that may pertain to as with whites I’ve never had a problem with staining, etc. I have sprayed stained items repeatedly which then ended up left and dried out before laundering w/o any problem.

  • Christy

    Yes, how much vinegar should you use in the washing machine? I did try soaking my white shirt in vinegar and water and then washed it. It helped but the Clorox for whitening did the best – except for the pillow cases. I’ll also try OxyClean next time.

    • Lindsey

      I used a cup, just from a random Google search.

  • Christy

    Yes, how much vinegar should you use in the washing machine? I did try soaking my white shirt in vinegar and water and then washed it. It helped but the Clorox for whitening did the best – except for the pillow cases. I’ll also try OxyClean next time.

    • Lindsey

      I used a cup, just from a random Google search.

  • http://simplysandwich.net Paula @ Simply Sandwich

    I love the idea of “micro goals”! It makes the whole idea of goals much more manageable! I am going back to the drawing board and see if I can micro some of my goals! Thanks!

    • Anonymous

      Awesome, Paula — did you do this yet? How do you feel about your new micro goals?

  • http://lukep.net/web lukemeister

    This is really good advice, something I’ve heard a few times but it’s always good to get a reminder! If I don’t have attainable goals on a daily basis I get distracted and off track really quickly, so I try to break up goals in a way that allows me to tackle things in a short range basis, such as one day.

    • Anonymous

      Yes, definitely — there’s nothing like being able to cross it off your list to keep you motivated to take the next step!

  • http://momskitchenandstuff.com Brittany

    We sponsor children through Compassion International and give to their many different areas of intervention (malaria, aids/hiv, etc)

    We have a regular giving plan with the amount of children we sponsor, but if we feel led to give more, we do.

    Charity navigator is a great tool to use in researching different charities to give to.

    Worldwide

  • http://simplifiedsaving.com Lisa @ Simplified Saving

    I just wrote today about how our giving has changed since paying off our debt and I shared about our love of Compassion. http://simplifiedsaving.com/2010/10/compassion-sponsor-a-child-change-a-life/
    I am looking forward to Kingdom First Mom’s 30 Day Giving Challenge. I loved participating last year and am looking forward to being involved again this year!

  • Sherri

    Hi Mandi,

    There are a couple of criteria we use when it comes to choosing where to make donations. Firstly, if there’s an illness or disease that’s prominent in our family then we’ll donate to a foundation that supports research or helping these patients. We also donate to charities that focus on helping people locally. Since our first son was born with a congenital heart defect we make donations throughout the year to a cardiac center in our home town and the children’s wish foundation. It’s my dream to sponsor two children’s wishes and at $20K a wish on average I have a long way to go :)

    This is such a great idea Mandi I can’t wait to participate.

  • http://twitter.com/themomwrites prerna

    Excellent post, Celes. I love working in a clear, clutter-free environment and also, enjoy starting my day really early before the baby and husband are up. That gives me a peace-filled zone to think and create. Oh and reminding myself of the varied reasons I freelance for helps me work faster as well:-)

  • http://twitter.com/LKnerl LKnerl

    I hear ya! One of the reasons I finally wrote this was because I found myself stopping off for too many candy bars and 20 oz. sodas. Not only was this not in the budget, but my effort to lose my baby weight was being sabotaged. Know what I really “deserved?” An apple, a cup of home-brewed decaf, and $10 towards my retirement! – Linsey Knerl

  • http://www.manylittleblessings.com Angie @ Many Little Blessings

    I have a bachelors degree in elementary education and a masters degree in special education.

    My husband had worked toward his bachelors a bit, but then dropped out. Years later now, he has gone back (and it’s a lot harder working full time and being a Dad to three kids). He doesn’t necessarily know that it will mean any more money for him after he finishes (though we hope), but it just seems like if he ever lost his job, he would be much more likely to find another one in his field if he had a degree. (He has really worked his way up in his company in a way that it doesn’t seem like people do much anymore. So, if he wanted to look for a similar job in another company, he would almost certainly need a degree.)

  • Sarah

    I don’t think that a degree begets success, but it certainly paves the way for a professional career in this day and age. If one defines success professionally, then a degree will certainly make a difference. It gives credibility, a network, skills, work ethic and practice. However, success can be defined in many ways, not just a professional career. Getting a degree is a personal choice. I have a master’s degree and bachelor’s degree, and though I have debt for the master’s, the time and money spent was well worth it. Even if I stay at home with kids, I consider myself a better person for working towards it.

  • http://www.se7en.org.za Se7en

    I have a degree or three, and think it has very little to do with success… it has everything to do with learning how to go the distance and stick to a task until you are finished, and a lot to do with being able to problem solve until you come up with a solution – let’s face it some assignments seem insurmountable until you realize if you don’t find a way you will fail!!! I use the organizing skills and the problem solving skills that I learnt through going the extra mile and finishing up a doctorate before having my children. I knew to finish studying before I had kids – I never wanted to say: “I quit studying because of you…” Now that I have had kids I realize that in the scheme of things my kids are more important than anything and I would have given up all my studying to have a couple more kids!!!

  • Rochelle

    I do not have a degree. I changed my major so many times and I left school to get married, then left school again when we started having children and not enough money to put us both through school – not to mention time. Do I want a degree? Absolutely. Mostly to prove to myself that I can do it. However, we still don’t have enough money for us both to go to school, even with financial aid. I currently stay home and transcribe for Deaf and Hard of Hearing college students, which you don’t need a degree, but you do require training. It’s great, I get to learn without paying! But then, I don’t get credit for it. When I do go back to school I would love to become a high school English teacher. I know there’s no way around it. Or, I’d be an ASL teacher for high school. I sometimes battle feeling successful, especially when I have friends getting their masters and they’re 4 years younger than me. I do feel successful when I write. I love learning and I’d love to be a professional student. How fun would that be to go to classes and learn all the things I could! It’d be amazing.

  • Jen D.

    I have a college degree and a Master’s Degree in Education (specifically literacy.) I love learning and going to school. If it weren’t for the prohibitive cost and time, I would go back to school to learn a new profession, just to learn something new. Currently, I have three little kids (ages 4, 3 and 1.) I teach three days a week as a specialist and spend four days a week at home with my three kids. Teaching is one of my passions and gifts (I feel.) I am thankful for the balance that working three days a week, at a job that I enjoy brings to my life. I hope to go back to the classroom full-time in a few years when my older two are in school. As far as the successful part of your series of questions, I am not sure if having a degree necessarily makes you successful. It really depends upon how you define success. I am grateful for my degrees and the experiences that came with them, but that doesn’t necessarily equal success.

  • Kate

    I have never commented before.. but I feel strongly about this subject. Yes, I have a degree- a B.A. in English- and am working on getting my Elementary Education teaching license. For five months my husband has been unemployed. I have been able to be a stay at home mom for the past 11 years.. but when this happened- although it was a shock and very hard- I remember feeling deeply grateful that both my husband and I have a college education (he has a Masters in Business, as well ) … and it has blessed us during this challenging time. One of my favorite quotes is: “Education opens the doors of opportunity” – Gordon B. Hinckley. I truly believe this and have seen this in my life and those around me. I hope to further my education and I expect all of my children to get a college degree no matter what! This is what my parents did…and all seven of their children completed their college education.

  • Kris

    Thirty years ago, I earned a Bachelor’s degree in English. I worked full time to pay for school, was a full-time student, and graduated early by attending school year-round. At the time, I was told on a number of occasions that the only jobs for which I’d be qualified were teaching, editing or writing. (Well, golly gee, aren’t those things included in most jobs?)

    After graduating, I worked in sales for a few years, then banking. For the past 18 years, I have been working in in a great job in the IT industry.

    While my degree did help open doors for me, I found employers to be much more interested in the story of how I scrambled to pay for it without financial assistance and without going into debt — THOSE were the skills they wanted me to apply on their behalf. The actual degree was incidental.

    I “use” my degree every day, analyzing, synthesizing and summarizing huge volumes of information. Being able to learn quickly and rapidly master new technologies. I don’t consider myself a technically-oriented person, but I have been able to outpace colleagues thanks to my liberal arts education.

    The IT industry and the nursing field are two of the fastest growing job sectors in our present economy. In both fields, it is possible to secure family-wage jobs, with benefits, without investing the time and expense for a four-year degree.

    To address your questions, I don’t have a degree in my field, but I have a better track record and am more successful, by society’s conventional standards, than most of my colleagues who do. Having a degree does not automatically result in successful employment ; chutzpuh and hustle do. A degree, while helpful (and very expensive these days), is not necessary for success in our society.

  • Domesticaccident

    Wow, I’m like Holly and have a Master’s in speech path. I am very grateful for my education. I met my husband at my first job, then I had a premature baby who probably didn’t need speech therapy because he was with me 24/7 (he needed years of other therapies), and now after being home for more than 10 years, I am working part-time and making decent money around my kids’ schedule.

    My husband didn’t finish college and yet, he is definitely the bread winner. In the 80′s, I read a book called The Bell Curve whose basic premise was you are either born smart or not, and that’s what determines your life’s success. I don’t agree with that in totality, but I bet there’s some truth to it.

  • Domesticaccident

    Wow, I’m like Holly and have a Master’s in speech path. I am very grateful for my education. I met my husband at my first job, then I had a premature baby who probably didn’t need speech therapy because he was with me 24/7 (he needed years of other therapies), and now after being home for more than 10 years, I am working part-time and making decent money around my kids’ schedule.

    My husband didn’t finish college and yet, he is definitely the bread winner. In the 80′s, I read a book called The Bell Curve whose basic premise was you are either born smart or not, and that’s what determines your life’s success. I don’t agree with that in totality, but I bet there’s some truth to it.

  • http://abonwheels.tumblr.com/ abonwheels

    After being in school for 4+ years (I’m on my fifth), I have begun to doubt the importance of a degree, especially considering the rising cost of education. I really think, if things continue this way, that future generations may not attend college, simply because it will be completely unaffordable. I believe it is completely possible to be successful without a degree. There are other ways to gain the skills and make the connections needed to get places in life. In terms of getting a job to make a living, going to college may not be the most efficient way to do so in the future.

    I do, however, believe that education is a great opportunity. Within the last year, I have transferred from one school to another, mostly to save money since I can live with my parents attending the school I’m at now. There have been times when I felt that I was wasting my time with school because I was taking general education courses or other things that felt unrelated to what I want to do with my life. Now, as I’ve gotten older and made the switch to a different school, I’ve definitely learned what a huge blessing it is to get an education. It makes me sad to think that future generations may see education as more of a burden than a blessing if financing school keeps going in the direction it seems to be head.

  • Jenny

    I have a Bachelors in Nutrition, but am now a sahm to three little ones. The money we pay out every month to pay back student loans really makes me wonder if it was necessary or even helpful. Hubby also has a BS, and it really does make a difference. Who knows? Only time will tell.

  • Jean

    I have a degree in Liberal Studies that allowed me to get an elementary teaching credential more easily. I sometimes wonder what life would have been like if I got into something else besides teaching and/or got a different degree. But now that I am a SAHM it’s not an issue. I consider myself successful. If I had gone to beauty school, married my hubby had the kiddos…. I would still have considered myself a success. I think life is what you make of it. I think success doesn’t mean having a lot of money. If you have a job that you are good at, pay the bills, are happy…. then that’s success in my book.

  • Jean

    I have a degree in Liberal Studies that allowed me to get an elementary teaching credential more easily. I sometimes wonder what life would have been like if I got into something else besides teaching and/or got a different degree. But now that I am a SAHM it’s not an issue. I consider myself successful. If I had gone to beauty school, married my hubby had the kiddos…. I would still have considered myself a success. I think life is what you make of it. I think success doesn’t mean having a lot of money. If you have a job that you are good at, pay the bills, are happy…. then that’s success in my book.

  • http://www.adjuvancy.com/wordpress Roy A. Ackerman, Ph.D., E.A.

    I have had my Outlook set up like that for 20 years (since alpha and beta testing).  So, I get reminders 2 days before something is due or something happens- and it shows up on my laptop, tablet, and phone the same way.
    And, there’s a tremendous advantage to attaching a memo, then writing the message, and then addressing the eMail- you can’t accidentally click “send” before you are ready!  (It saves TONS of embarrassment.)

  • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

    LOL! I’m afraid I don’t have a solution for that!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

    I love this idea; I think you’re probably right that it’s much easier to view the words objectively once they’re out of you’re head and on paper! Thanks for sharing!

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