5 Ways to Make a Cozy, Serene Bedroom

by Lindsey on November 3, 2011

The following post is from Lindsey M. Roberts, a design & décor writer:

bed with blue bedspread

source: West Elm

The bedroom is the foundation for how the rest of your house feels, and even for how you sleep and how you start your day.

And even though I knew this, my husband and I still worked on the public rooms first. I’m here to tell you, don’t do this! Why? Because you are worth it.

Your bedroom is the heartbeat of your home.

1. Choose the best bed frame for you

If the bedroom sets the tone for your home and your stress levels, the bed sets the tone for the bedroom. Choose a style for your frame that goes with the rest of the house, and a frame that centers the room—whether that’s a metal frame, bed skirt, and headboard, or an all-in-one wood or metal bed.

2. Maximize your layout

Center the bed against a wall, away from the flow of traffic, and in a way that maximizes windows and views. Also consider symmetry—two matching nightstands and lamps create the kind of serenity that makes for good sleeping.

cozy bedroom with bedding

source: Pottery Barn

3. Light for multiple tasks

Lighting is challenging in a bedroom, because it should be able to be both functional for tasks such as folding laundry and reading in bed, and soft and dim for naps and winding down for the evening. So make sure that you have direct overhead light and direct light for reading, but also shades that diffuse light softly for a nice glow. Dimmers can be useful, too. Multiple points of light is ideal.

4. Think about comfort

Textiles mean so much to a bedroom, from crisp sheets to warm blankets to soft rugs underfoot. And these items are the main source of comfort in a bedroom. Make sure that your mattress, sheets, and pillows are comfortable to you. I think that’s more important than rules about thread count and pillow thicknesses. And a large rug under part of the bed does wonders!

modern bedroom

source: CB2

5. Declutter and accessorize

To declutter and accessorize sounds contradictory, but the goal is to find that balance between overcrowded and bare. Clear the surfaces and make sure that everything has a place; consider storage boxes and baskets to tuck things away. And then attend to the accessories: hung art, jewelry arranged deliberately, water carafe on the nightstand, throws and pillows to pull in the color palette and style of the room.

Underlying all of these tips is the goal of choosing what you like and making your bedroom work for you, to make it a place where you can be restored.

What do you find are the challenges in decorating a bedroom?

Lindsey M. Roberts has covered design, décor, and homes from Washington state to Washington, D.C., writing for publications such as Seattle Homes & Lifestyles, Apartment Therapy, The Washington Post, Preservation and Architect magazine.
  • Lacie

    I loved how this series has helped remind me to put my husband first.  It’s so easy to just think of Father’s Day as a day that I need to make sure my daughter makes him a card and we do things he wants to do…but it so much more important to honor him always in the more important areas of spending time with him (I liked the comment one of you made about every day–not just date nights) and being a blessing to him.  Thanks for the great reminders!

  • Becca Schlabach

    This series was encouraging to me to help me remember to put my husband first all the time. With the busyness of caring for my kids and house, he can slip into second place, or someone who I need to help me! But I want to remember to honor him at all times and prioritize our time with each other.

  • Seattle resident

    My biggest challenge has always been that we want to spend the money on quality pieces for the rooms everybody sees. There’s usually little left for the bedroom. The headboard we currently have is 25 years old and was supposed to be the ‘until we can afford what we want’ headboard. Now we’re moving! So, next house…headboard first!

  • http://twitter.com/lindseymroberts Lindsey M. Roberts

    Yes, headboard first! Believe me, I know how hard it is to do that. 

  • Jenna@CallHerHappy

    All of these pictures are so wonderful! Our challenge right now is that we are in an apt. We can’t exactly do everything we want. So, I try to use accessories to give the feel I am looking for.

    Jenna
    callherhappy.com

  • Catherine

    I agree, why does everybody do this?  We did the same thing after we moved here a year ago and I just started putting together a plan to make our room special for us.  It has been totally bare for that long and I can’t stand it any longer!  So looking forward to our own little oasis.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      So true — we do it too! It took us until our FIFTH house together (granted we moved a lot in the first five years of our marriage) to actually decorate our master bedroom the way we dreamed!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

    I think it’s great that you’re accessorizing to create your haven rather than just giving up because you can’t do everything you want!

  • http://livingthebalancedlife.com Bernice Wood

    I think it is time for a bedroom redo, or a freshen up at least! Great ideas!
    Bernice
    10 easy meals for busy nights

  • Lzussino

    Cloth diapering is probably the most challenging tip. As a new mum the best reward is breast feeding as tough as it was initially, I certainly think any mum that is able to BF should but I’ll pass on the cloth diapering until my baby is able to eat solids.

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